Hallo I am back after a week of absence. I have bin buzy with decorating my place and I pimped it up to a Winter Wonderland. If you need a winter land to take your holiday pictures you are free to visit anytime. Later this  week I am going to show you some snap shots so you have an idea what it looks like.
For the pictures in this post I went to Virtual Decay  my favorite place when it comes to an urben scenery and because you have rezrights so you can place a pose ball and take all the time you want to get your picture done. Enjoy your weekend have fun while you shop until you drop.

Shopping spree
Skin  -Belleza-  Nina Sunkissed 7  *NEW*
Hair  *ARGRACE*  Ribbed Beanie Zoey
Jacket ::theACAPULCOgold.::  ADI Hoodie & Shirt Red
Pants  .: ryvolter :.  Boyfriend Jeans Dark
Shoes [sYs]  Mousys Skate Shoes  Save the Queen
Belt +graps+  leopard Hipbag Black 
Mask  Razor ///  Surgical Nurse Mask 
Cam  AITUI  Sweiss Cam 
Location  Virtual Decay 



It is official now ,  no use of hiding anymore I am coming out …
            Hello I am Inkie and I have a second life shoe fetish.
When it comes to shoes in real life ,  being comfortable is the key word and oooh yes being able to run if needed is important in rl shoes as well. So I don’t wear high heels only on rare occasions feeling sorry for my feet after a night dancing on stilt shoes.  
Shoe addicted people you can get your shoes and boots  fix  @  Shoetopia 2013. I drooled there for hours and the end result is a pile of  boxes a world war 3 zone inventory and a broke ass avi. 
The boots are from Slink and you need to get the Slink High Feet as well. Other shoe designers making shoes to add on to this high feet. 
The skin I am wearing is a -Belleza- Fifty Linden Friday skin maybe if you hurry it is still there this weekend. If not make yourself member of the FLF Group so you know witch great stuff from the best designers is in the shops for only 50 lindens.
The hair is new  from Analog Dog the best curl maker in second life and the new round of My Attic is open so said all that I leave your to your next shopping trip. Enjoy your weekend have fun while you ( shoe ) shop until your drop.
Shopping spree
Skin  – Belleza-  Molly  *FLF* 
Hair analog dog  Libra  *NEW*
Dress SYSY’s   @  My Attic   CoCo Suede Dress Blush 
Boots  Slink @  Shoetopia  2013  Demi Boots Blush  *NEW*
Feet  Slink @ Shoetopia 2013  Av Enhance Feet Female High  *NEW*
  Tattoo on Leg  KHUSH   Laced Up Tattoo 
Scarf  *COCO*  Wool Scarf Pink-Mix
Pose 1st Picture  Diesel  Works  Bombastic 3 


We are going dig deep to our inner feelings and thoughts  with this weeks meme challenge by Strawberry Singh. I had to think long and hard to give the right answers. Sometimes I was tempted to give the political right answer but I decided to stay true to myself.

  1. Regardless of your current number, how old do you actually feel? –  I really don’t know how an age should feel like . Friends told me I got an old soul from the time I was young but the same friends telling me know that now I am  getting older I am keeping my fresh young look on life. So I know it is a cliche but age is just numbers really.
  2. Which is worse, failing or never trying? – Never trying but …. I hate failing. Sometimes I need a push from a close friend to remind me that it is better die trying then to die with a “what if” question mark on your grave stone.
  3. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently?– Then I would be almost my time to lay down and die but even then I would not change anything. 
  4. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things? – In my life up to know I failed to do the “right things” in society prospective. But I did  and do the “bad”things  very well. There is a TLC song called I’m good in being bad  and that sums it up I suppose.
  5. Would you rather be a worried genius or a joyful simpleton? – Joyful for sure I lack the genes for the genius and to much worry makes a person get old before there time.
  6. Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend? – .No … again a no after deep thought a 3th no. But I keep on trying to be a better friend and me getting older it looks like I am improving but still a loooooooooooong way to go ask my close friends.
  7. Do you remember that time 5 years ago when you were extremely upset? Does it really matter now? – I have short time memory when it comes to the things that upset me. Thinking deep about things that happened to me  and done to me by others when I was to young to fight back is not upsetting me anymore I moved on and learned to use that as a stepping stone in my life.
  8. At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive? – Past Summer when I was visiting a Summer music festival with my 19 year old daughter. Beautiful weather great music and we both enjoying the same DJ’s dancing our asses of. 
  9. If you just won a million dollars, would you quit your job? – Yes in a minute. Don’t know what I am going to do then but my job is not my life fulfillment. I don’t hate it but it is not the love of my life it pays my bills and it supports my second life shopping habits.
  10. If you knew that everyone you know was going to die tomorrow, who would you visit today? – My 19 year old daughter my brother my parents and 4 really close friends. I would fly to Canada to say hello / goodbye to Isa but the flight from Holland is taking to long so it would be our last skype call.
  11. What do you feel is the difference between being alive and truly living? – Truly living is not happening to me 24/7 there are  the moments in life when every thing fits perfectly. The universe and the people in it are in lined with me and it is a giving and taking of good energy but … I gave up to strive to have this feeling all the time. Because I wanted to feel great all the time and did not wanted to accept that life is not always a hosanna heaven I ended up in a life with a lot of drugs and alcohol. I passed that bin there done that and I accept now that sometimes life is just a period when you are alive and sometimes that sucks. You can only measure your happiness by your unhappiness I am in peace with that.
  12. If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake? – The period that comes after the mistake is hard hard work to get over it. Sometimes it takes years to see the lesson and understand why it had to happen and sometimes it sucks even harder that there were no lessons to learn because it is not always a stepping stone in life but just a road block.
  13. What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you? – For 7 years I was stuck in a very religious community with God as the great and powerful Ozz and his earth helpers  judging me 24/7. I liberated myself and made a vow to myself never to live under any kind  judgement day from nobody anymore.
  14. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be? The same advice I give my 19 year old : “Respect yourself  by respecting others like you want to be respected yourself”

Shopping spree
Skin  { .essences.}  Song Noisette Ginger
Hair  >TRUTH<  Marleen 
Top  DRIFT  Central Park Sweater Solid Knit Set  *NEW*
Skirt Maitreya  Anais Skirt Polka Green
Boots  *League*  @  Shoetopia   Winter Wedge Boot 


    Some people are early on decorating there place in to a Winter Wonderland. A trip worth taking and time well spent on It All Starts With a Smile. Owner Kaelyn Alecto made herself a beautiful place with great spots to take Winter themed pictures with a cute little coffee shop and yes a real coffee shop not a Dutch “coffee shop”. I finely made it to Shoetopia 2013 and it felt like heaven !! There are gatcha machines as well so be patient take your time to fight the lag it is all worth it.
    Izzie Button made the cutest ear muffs in 20  different colors  available in Izzie’s mainstore loacated in  a beautiful Winter Wonderland as well. This is it for today have fun while you shop until you drop.

    Shopping spree
    Skin  **SHINE**  Yasmin Peach Pale  *NEW*
    Hair Tameless  Tilly  *NEW*
    Top [DEADWOOL]  @  Shoetopia 2013 Gingham Shirt Emerald  *GACHA*
    Pants  [monso]  @  FaMESHed  My Cotton Jeans Black 
    Boots  AF  @  Shoetopia  2013  Hugg Boots Studded
    Mittens  *League*  Sheepskins Mittens Brown
    Scarf  *COCO*  Woolscarf Copper Black 
    Earmuffs  Izzie’s  Mesh Earmuffs Green  *NEW* 
    Pose 1st Picture !bang  Mini Three Quarter 2
    Pose 2cond Picture  Ma Vie Poses  Lumineux 10


    Today I tried a 12547854965 gazillion times to get in to the Shoetopia a little piece of shoe heaven. Finely I made it on the second sim but …… notthing was rezzing so nothing to see and nothign to buy  so I give up …. for now.  I took some pictures at my own place still in Autumn theme and I am going to wait to pimp it up to Winter till the end of this month. So if you want to see my place in Autumn glorie you got some time left.
    For now nothing more to say have fun while you shop until you drop.

    Shopping spree
    Skin  -Belleza-  Nina Sunkissed  *NEW*
    Hair  [LeLutka]  Seiko
    Top  ::{u.f.o}::   @  COLLABOR88 November  Loose Fit Zipper Sweater Red
    Pants  H.O.F   @  COLLABOR88 November  Leather Pants Black
    Shoes  /erratic/  @  COLLABOR88  November  Ankle Boots Black
    Scarf  DRIFT   @  TDRF  Chunky Scarf  *3 COLOR HUD* 
    Glasses  (Elate!)  Olivia Glasses Tortoise 
    Ring  MG  @  COLLABOR88 November  Mermaid’s Serpent Eye
    Backpack  =Zenith=  Rammus Leather Backpack Red


                                                          Winter Cold
    Today a post with some landscape pics and some fashion pictures all taken on the Izzie’s sim. She made a Winter Wonderland early this year and if you ask me this is the pace to be if you need a scenery for your Winter pictures. I feeling kind of sick having symptoms of the flu and I am going to bed after finishing this post but I did not wanted to wait to show you Izzie’s place.

    Shopping spree
    Skin  { .essences.}  @  TDRF  Song Goth 01 *NEW*
    Hair  Clawtooth  @  COLLABOR88 November Gun Street Girl 
    Cape ::{u.f.o}::  @  COLLABOR88 November Ponpon Cape Coat Camel
    Pants **BAIASTICE**  @  COLLABOR88  Metro Cropped Pants Carrot
    Shoes **BAIASTICE**  @  COLLABOR88  Oxford Shoes With Socks Orange 
    Necklace MG  @ COLLABOR88 Clockwork Steampunk Heart 
    Location Izzie’s  


                                                         You're The Best

     This weeks Meme dictated  by Strawberry Singh is a case of Berry asking the questions and all of us giving the answers. For 2  challenges of the past I still am in  work in progress. The Avatar Look Alikes Challenge and the Your Avatar’s Private Life Challenge are jet to come. The great thing about the Monday challanges is the fact you can step in on any time you like.

    Meme Instructions by Berry herself: Copy and paste the questions and answers below, delete my answers and input your own. The twist is, the final question you need to change and make up your own best & worst that you want to share. Don’t forget to leave a link to your post in the comments on Best & Worst Meme

    1. Best thing about Second Life: Meeting  people from all over the world getting to know how the other side of the world is living. Being creative an outlet for my demanding real life job
      Worst thing about Second Life: I can not base my opinion  on body language and in real life this is my compass I drive by So this makes me more on a distance then I am in real life.
    2. Best thing in your inventory: My skin folder
      Worst thing in your inventory: The high numbers of my inventory. It does not matter how hard I work to delete and to organise my shit the numbers are still sl sky high and it still looks like a World War 3 zone.
    3. Best earliest SL memory:  Sitting on a camping bench for hours with other new bees in the game sitting there long enough  to get my first Lindens  so I was able to take a picture with my first savings  Worst earliest SL memory: Getting a bite from a vampire that was a griever messed up my avi real bad. Did not have a clue how to fix it got me upset for 3 days before I got help from Google ( Google is Always my savior Trojan horses on my pc and sl grievers you name it Google is giving me the solution )
    4. Best thing you learned because of SL: Learned how to work with the computer and how easy the use of the intenet is. Before I was only using the pc to play my Sims game and for the rest I did nothing much on the net and second life changed that and that benefits all aspects of my life.
      Worst thing you learned because of SL: There are douche bags and assholes behind the pc and sometimes it takes a while before you see there true colors. And wtf  are some man thinking sending me pictures of genitals saying is thers and asking me what I   think of “it “. Please !!!! stop that !! It is grossing me out and it gets you on my mute list for a second life time.
    5. Best thing about blogging: My creative  escape from a hecktick day time job that is not creative at all.Worst thing about blogging: Struggeling with a dead line. I don’t want to dissapoint designers who sent me great  items and sometimes I just don’t have enough time to get it all out here.
    6. Best thing to have for a great kiss : Clean teeth and a healthy breath.
      Worst thing to have for a great kiss :  Bad Breath
    Shopping spree
    Skin Izzie’s   Kaelyn 20’s Skin
    Hair  booN  Hairpiece Yume 96
    Cap & Nose Chain RO @ The Mens Dept  Paragons Cap Made Plaid  *NEW*
    Top  …Mutresse…FaMESHed  Piki Sweater  *NEW*
    Skirt  DRIFT  Mode Mini Tartan Plaid * 6 PLAIDS WITH HUD *
    Boots  /erratic/  @  COLLABOR88  Selene Mesh Ankle Boots Red *NEW*
    Tights  /erratic/  Fishnet Thin
    Scarf  *GF*  Muffler Hound Tooth Red
    Pose Ma Vie  Liquid State 07
    Location  Innsmouth